A 9-week intensive with Aella
For men who want to explore active/receptive dynamics and feel their heart as part of the journey. Go beyond technique into embodied presence, radical honesty, and the inner work that makes you unforgettable in bed.
Join 200+ men transforming their intimate lives
Nine modules, released weekly. Each builds on the last, taking you from foundations to mastery.
Who is this course for, establishing your baseline, and setting intentions for the journey to Sex God.
Letting go into full honesty with yourself. Integrating shame, looking at the 'hidey holes,' and the practice that makes men genuinely arousing.
Becoming unmanageable as natural self-expression (not strategy), plus consent, tenderness, and the foundations that make intensity safe.
Understanding what you're into vs. what subtype she is. Reading the research, interpreting the data, and mapping the landscape of female desire.
In you are two wolves — keep them fed. Navigating sexual shame, tracking what women respond to, and spotting women who are into your energy.
Playing high, reading minds without violating boundaries. A practical scale of dominance moves from low risk to high risk, with context.
Generating the 'playing high' headspace through embodiment: meditation, improv, rejection practice, dance, and exercises that build sexual presence.
Orienting to life, dating, and sex from abundance. How having options makes men more moral, less defensive, and more prosocial.
How you treat other women matters. Putting it all together into a sustainable way of being — in and out of the bedroom.
Everything you need to go deep, stay accountable, and actually change.
In-depth video lessons, interviews with men and women, and research walkthroughs released weekly.
Saturday Q&A and Thursday workshop calls with Aella every week for 9 weeks.
Hands-on exercises each week — scavenger hunts, journaling, embodiment practices, and group conversations.
A private community of men doing the same work. Connect, practice, and hold each other accountable.
From men who took the leap.
“I came in thinking this would be about techniques. It ended up being one of the most transformative personal growth experiences I've ever had. My partner noticed changes within the first two weeks.”
“Aella's data-driven approach made me feel safe enough to actually be honest with myself for the first time. The exercises are uncomfortable in exactly the right way.”
“The live calls alone were worth the price. Hearing other men be radically honest about their struggles — and getting Aella's direct feedback — changed how I show up everywhere, not just in the bedroom.”
“I've read dozens of books on this topic. None of them came close to the depth and honesty of this course. Week 5 genuinely rewired how I think about desire.”
Writer, researcher, and one of the internet’s most well-known voices on sex, kink, and human desire. She has surveyed tens of thousands of people on their intimate lives and brings a data-informed, unflinching perspective to everything she teaches.
Limited Beta Pricing
One-time payment. Lifetime access to course materials.
Beta pricing — price will increase for future cohorts.